BL Actors Are Not Your Fantasy Boyfriends — Stop Shipping Real People

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Written By Aam Anusorn Soisa-ngim

They look perfect together.

They smiled at each other at the fan meeting.

They posted matching hoodies.

They must be dating, right?

Wrong. Or at least —

Not your business.
In the latest episode of The Truth of Boys’ Love, We dives deep into one of the most controversial and uncomfortable truths in the BL fandom: the obsession with shipping real actors — and how it can cross from cute to creepy real quick.

Let’s be real: loving a character is one thing.

But demanding that two real-life actors act like boyfriends 24/7? That’s not shipping — that’s parasocial control.

🎙️ It’s a raw, no-BS look at the toxic side of fandom.

And we’re asking the big question:

Is it ever okay to ship real people? Or is it always a form of emotional manipulation?

And remember: BL is fiction.

Actors are not.

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Aam Anusorn Soisa-ngim

Aam Anusorn is an independent filmmaker and storyteller with a decade of experience in the industry. As the founder and CEO of Commetive By Aam, he has directed and produced several acclaimed films and series, including the popular "Till The World Ends" and "#2moons2." Known for his creative vision and determination, Aam prefers crafting original stories that push the boundaries of traditional genres, particularly in the BL and LGBTQ+ spaces. Despite the challenges and pressures of working in a competitive field, Aam’s passion for storytelling drives him to explore new ideas and bring unique narratives to life. His work has garnered recognition and support from prestigious platforms, including the Tokyo Gap Financial Market. Aam continues to inspire audiences with his innovative approach to filmmaking, always staying true to his belief in the power of original, heartfelt stories.

https://Commetivebyaam.com
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